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Kenotic Leadership

Kenotic leadership possesses its image in God and imitates Christ's self-emptying way.

Do I have a life worth imitating?

Do I have a life worth imitating?

Do I have a life worth imitating?

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The biggest temptation we face as leaders is to build our own kingdoms, by our own power, for our own glory.
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JR Woodward

Overview

Kenotic leadership is the name chapter 12 of The Scandal of Leadership gives a leader who possesses an image in God and leaves the kingdom, the power, and the glory with God. From grasping to self-emptying is the movement these chapters make. Grasping shows up as the desire for domineering power, as principalities that keep a leader in their grasp, and as the urge to construct a self from titles. Self-emptying is kenosis. Woodward reads it in the Christ hymn and lists three practices, in this order: refusing to exploit our status, regularly emptying ourselves, and revolutionary humble obedience.

Chapter 1 opens with Tolkien's One Ring only as Woodward uses it. Sauron made it. It mesmerizes whoever meets it, and whoever wears it is overcome with a desire for domineering power. Frodo carries it as lead ring bearer toward Mount Doom, and Woodward says not even Frodo can withstand the temptation. The tale mirrors the church. Leaders know the danger and still put the ring on. He calls the falls epidemic. A fallen leader devastates the church and undermines its witness. He cites the charge of controlling leadership. The diagnosis he wants reaches the Powers, which he defines as Satan, the demonic, and the principalities and powers in Scripture.

Chapter 6 says each of us is a model to someone. People learn by instruction, by immersion in mission, and by imitation, and he says the greatest of these is imitation. Girard's discovery, as Woodward uses it, is that those who look to us imitate our desires. We become what we love, and we borrow desire from the models we look up to. He calls that mimetic desire. Chapter 7 says leaders are captive to imitation and that there is no neutral ground. Imitate the Powers, and the leadership that shows up is domineering. Imitate Christ in submission to the Father, and the leadership that shows up is missional. Positive mimesis is the second path: desire transformed by Jesus, then passed on because it was received as a gift.

Chapter 12 asks what a missional leader in the way of Christ actually does, and why that way is scandalous. Fall to the Powers through the mimetic cycle, and the people who look to you are scandalized. Imitate Christ, and the scandal is the self-emptying life itself. Paul sets Jesus before the Philippians as the supreme model. Woodward reads the hymn as a pathway, then defines kenotic leadership under the kingdom prayer: possess your image in God, name the ideologies that captivate you, and leave the kingdom with God. The question he says it all starts with is whether you have a life worth imitating. Óscar Romero is the model he dates and places in that chapter. The 2012 chapter "Relinquishing the Need to Control" does not yet say kenosis. It tells a church to loosen sole control, with Jesus and the Spirit at the center.

The usual question:

Do I have a life worth imitating?

The better question:

Do I have a life worth imitating?

The framework

The idea

Chapter 12 says the kenotic pathway, for anyone following the way of Jesus, involves three practices, and it lists them in this order: refusing to exploit our status, regularly emptying ourselves, and revolutionary humble obedience. He also sets kenotic leadership as the fifth theme of the kingdom prayer, under the line that gives the kingdom, the power, and the glory to God. This page keeps his three practice-names as the parts. Grasping and the models we imitate are the diagnosis those practices answer. He treats them in chapters 1, 6, and 7, and this page keeps them in the claim and the synthesis.
01

Refusing to exploit our status

Woodward reads Philippi as a city where status was everything and honor was pursued over the honor of others. Roman rulers claimed divine status and used it to enlarge their own glory. Local elites imitated that pattern. Christ, who genuinely possessed divine status, took another route and received the highest honor for approaching power in a countercultural way. The ground of that freedom, as Woodward tells it, is belonging. Jesus heard the Father's word at the baptism: this is my son, whom I love, with him I am well pleased. Having received his identity, he could spurn the devil's temptations and avoid acquisitive mimesis. Because he knew the Father's love, he had no need to find status in the conventional world, and he refused to use his status as God in exploitative ways.

Paul is the second picture. Woodward cites Gombis: Paul had placed full confidence in inherited credentials and in a constructed social identity. The autobiography in Philippians 3 lists circumcision, tribe, Pharisee, zeal, and faultless law-keeping. Hellerman, as Woodward uses him, hears that list in the form of honor inscriptions, inherited honors first, achieved honors after. Wink's negative sense of flesh, which Woodward recalls, is the self subjugated to the opinion of others and socialized into the domination system. Worth located in titles or achievements becomes selfish ambition. Titles remain a fact of life. Finding value in them creates mimetic rivalry.

The practice is concrete in the letter's opening. Paul is an apostle and does not use the title with the Philippians. He chooses the label slave. Woodward's question follows: Have I become possessed by my image instead of fully possessing the identity I receive from my triune God? The same test returns when he defines kenotic leadership. Possess your image in God. The ideologies that captivate a leader do their work by getting that leader to rely on private power for affirmation and attention.

02

Regularly emptying ourselves

Woodward says the opposite of emptying ourselves is being full of ourselves: a sense of self-importance that exalts us above others, often from ascribed or achieved status. That attitude ends in mimetic rivalry and disunity. He does not think Jesus emptied himself of his power. John 13:3, as he cites it, says Jesus had all power, and he did not wield it in a worldly or coercive way. Sarah Coakley, in the definition he uses, treats kenosis as choosing never to have certain false and worldly forms of power, forms sometimes wrongly construed as divine. If that reading holds, Jesus' self-emptying shows a true image of divine power and a reflection of the Father's self-emptying way.

The foot washing is the scene. The disciples argued about who was greatest. Jesus became their slave and washed their feet. They were content, Woodward says, to remain where mimetic rivalry prevails. Paul then empties his own honor list. Whatever was gain he considers loss for the sake of Christ, and he calls the old credentials garbage. The pathway requires emptying every previous way of forming identity. In the world's perception of value, worth, and honor, we become nobodys so that God might make us somebodys.

It is not a single event. Paul had to die daily. Woodward borrows Elisabeth Kübler-Ross's stages as a map for dying to a constructed self: denial that mimetic desire is real, anger that the impressive image is dead, bargaining to keep one achievement, depression in the wilderness while the powers keep us in their grasp, and acceptance that an honorable self can be received from God. Acceptance sounds like Paul's contentment in Philippians 4, and like Jesus' yoke, gentle and humble in heart. Identity is found in Christ and in a communal life of humble obedience, in the non-rivalrous life of the triune God. The desire that defines the pathway, as he reads Philippians 3:10, is to know Christ, the power of his resurrection, and participation in his sufferings.

03

Revolutionary humble obedience

Humble obedience, in this chapter, is how a missional leader gets free of the mimetic trap inside the domination system and is released to start a revolution of love. Hellerman's point, as Woodward quotes the force of it, is that being humbled was common in the ancient world, where men grew their honor at a peer's expense. Humbling oneself was outside the dominant culture's values, and Christ's self-humiliation went to a Roman cross. Paul writes from prison, a place tied to shame, and still shows joy, prays for the Philippians, and is unfazed by rivals who preach with rivalrous intentions. Gombis, in the passage Woodward uses, says the measure of Paul's faithfulness is a life and ministry that resemble a dying corpse on a Roman cross, because that is where God poured out resurrection life. Ministry from another posture draws on an inferior power.

Woodward refuses to treat exaltation as a prize handed out for humility. We do not become last in order to be first. The last is first in reality. To be humble is to be exalted. He cites Bauckham: God is seen to be God in radical self-giving, descending to the most abject human condition, and in that obedience is no less truly God than in cosmic rule. Kenosis becomes a permanent revelation of who God is. He rules as the one who serves.

He also answers the objection that this journey is only for people who already sit low. Hellerman's reminder, as Woodward gives it, is that Paul used the cross to call those with status in the community to treat social capital as something to use, even to renounce, in the service of others. The hymn was not a tool for extracting submission from the powerless. People whose status is already low may have a shorter journey toward becoming nobody. He points to James 2:5, that the poor are rich in faith. Romero is the chapter's picture of this third practice: humble obedience that is also bold and prophetic, willing to bear the cost.

Kenotic leadership recovers a life that receives its image from God, empties the self built on honor, and obeys in a way other people can imitate.
Scripture

The Biblical Mandate

Philippians 2:5-11
Chapter 12 tells Óscar Romero's life as a kenotic model and dates the episodes that carry year and place: a 1917 birth in Ciudad Barrios, the 1977 appointment in San Salvador, and the March 1980 homily and death. The long narratives sit in the stories module. Girard, Wink, and Tolkien remain citations. They are not witness episodes here.
Historical context

Historical witness

Chapter 12 tells Óscar Romero's life as a kenotic model and dates the episodes that carry year and place: a 1917 birth in Ciudad Barrios, the 1977 appointment in San Salvador, and the March 1980 homily and death. The long narratives sit in the stories module. Girard, Wink, and Tolkien remain citations. They are not witness episodes here.
Case studies

Stories from practice

Case Study

The ring and the church that wears it

Tolkien's fellowship, as a mirror Woodward holds up to the church — The ring and the church that wears it

Chapter 1 uses the One Ring for a desire for domineering power that even a kind bearer cannot finally resist, then says church leaders are falling to that lure in epidemic numbers.
Case Study

Coffee workers, and a letter kept private

Santiago de María, a poor rural diocese in El Salvador, mid-1970s as Woodward places it — Coffee workers, and a letter kept private

Romero sheltered harvest workers beside the cathedral, then answered a massacre with a private letter to the president because he feared embarrassing the institution.
Case Study

Eighteen days after the installation

San Salvador, from the appointment on February 3, 1977, to the public mass after Grande's assassination — Eighteen days after the installation

Installed as a safe archbishop, Romero lost his friend eighteen days later and answered with one public mass and a refusal to attend the inauguration until the murders were investigated.
Case Study

The chapel at Divina Providencia

San Salvador, the cathedral homily of March 23, 1980, and the chapel of Hospital de la Divina Providencia on March 24 — The chapel at Divina Providencia

Two weeks after an interview in which he pardoned his killers in advance, Romero ordered the repression to stop, and the next day he was shot while celebrating the Eucharist.
Formation practices

Ask the image question

This week, answer his question in writing, then read the answer to one other leader.
Step 1

Step 1

Write the question at the top of a page: Have I become possessed by my image instead of fully possessing the identity I receive from the triune God?
Step 2

Step 2

Name one title, metric, or achievement that has been functioning as your worth.
Step 3

Step 3

Name one person who looks to you and is likely catching that desire.
Step 4

Step 4

Read what you wrote to one peer who has equal room to tell you the truth.
Step 5

Step 5

Ask that peer what desire they have been catching from you.
Step 6

Step 6

Pray Matthew 6:9-13 aloud together, using his five themes as the pauses: rooted identity, vocational faithfulness, contrast community, spiritual formation, kenotic leadership.
Step 7

Step 7

When you reach the closing line, stop and name one kingdom you have been building by your own power for your own glory.
Step 8

Step 8

Say out loud, in your own words, that the kingdom, the power, and the glory belong to God.
Step 9

Step 9

Ask one question from his list: Do our ways show the fruit of the Spirit?
Step 10

Step 10

Pick one credential from the kind of list Paul rehearses: a title, a résumé line, a room where you are used to being the one who knows.
Step 11

Step 11

Tell the team you are leaving it unused in the next meeting. Do the work without announcing the rank.
Step 12

Step 12

If the meeting touches a rivalry, say whose interest you are looking to, using his reading of Philippians 2:3-4 as the aim.
Step 13

Step 13

Afterward, write which stage you were in: denial, anger, bargaining, wilderness, or acceptance.
  1. Do I have a life worth imitating? Who is actually imitating you this month, and what are they catching?

  2. Have I become possessed by my image instead of fully possessing the identity I receive from the triune God? Which title still functions as your worth?

  3. Whose desire have you been imitating, and which model would you be embarrassed to name out loud? If disciples catch what you love, what did they catch from you last week?

  4. Which stage of dying to the old self are you in: denial, anger, bargaining to keep one achievement, the wilderness, or acceptance? What is the one achievement you are trying to keep?

  5. Do we have a community worth joining, and a mission worth dying for? He says it all starts with the first question, the life worth imitating. Where does yours start?

  6. Where are status, prestige, or honor the thing you are actually protecting? He says that concern ought to alert you to the work of the Powers. What would you have to let go of?

  7. Do our ways show the fruit of the Spirit, or do they show what he calls the fruit of the flesh? Where have we decided that if it works, it must be good and true?

  8. Is there a title on this team that someone could share and has chosen not to share? Who is already catching the desire for that title?

AI Lab

Ask what has been shaping your desire, and what a self-emptying life would look like in the church you actually lead. You help a reader practice JR Woodward's theme Kenotic Leadership. Hold this question open: Do I have a life worth imitating? The parts, in the order chapter 12 lists them, are refusing to exploit our status, regularly emptying ourselves, and revolutionary humble obedience. Do not rename them and do not add a fourth part. Grasping, models, and the Powers belong in the diagnosis. They are not extra headings beside the pathway. Draw first on *The Scandal of Leadership* (100 Movements, 2023), chapters 1, 6, 7, and 12, and on *Creating a Missional Culture* (InterVarsity, 2012), "Relinquishing the Need to Control". Quote him. Do not quote a Bible translation. Cite the book by title and chapter. Philippians 2 may be discussed only as chapter 12 exposits it: status refused, self emptied, humble obedience, the Father's exaltation. The One Ring stays the image he uses in chapter 1. Do not retell Tolkien past that. Do not invent a biography for JR. Romero may be told only as chapter 12 tells him, with the dates and places in that chapter. Girard, Wink, and Tolkien are citations, not historical-witness episodes of their own. The 2012 chapter loosens sole control and puts Jesus at the center. It does not yet say kenosis. When they want a next action, point to Ask the image question, Pray the kingdom line, and Die daily to one credential, and to the questions to sit with. Kenosis is not the loss of Jesus' power. Humility is not a prize for becoming last. Desire is not self-generated.

  • Try: “Do I have a life worth imitating?”
  • Try: “What desire are people catching from me?”
  • Try: “Which title have I been unwilling to share?”
  • Try: “Where am I full of myself?”
  • Try: “What would kenotic leadership look like in our next meeting?”
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Watch for distortion

Misreadings

A church hears self-emptying as the loss of agency. Leadership becomes absence, vagueness, or a refusal to act, and people call the vacuum humility. Woodward says it does not appear that Jesus emptied himself of his power. John tells us, in the verse he cites, that Jesus had all power, and he clearly did not wield it in a worldly or coercive way. The foot washing shows the use. While the disciples fought about greatness, he took the slave's role. Coakley, in the definition he adopts, treats kenosis as choosing never to have certain false and worldly forms of power, forms sometimes wrongly construed as divine. On that reading, the self-emptying is a lucid picture of divine power and of the Father's way. Paul still acts. He writes, prays, and tells the truth from prison. The power he refuses is the power that builds a private kingdom. Humility gets used as a strategy. A leader takes the lower place in public, keeps score, and waits for the exaltation to pay them back in honor, platform, or God's favor. Woodward says it might be a mistake to consider exaltation a prize or reward for humility. We do not become last in order to be first. The last is first in reality. To be humble is to be exalted. He cites Jesus' word about being lifted up and drawing all people, and Bauckham's claim that the contrast of humiliation and exaltation is the revelation of who God is. God rules as the one who serves. He is exalted as the one who is with the lowest. Romero is the chapter's warning against a tidy reward. The "reward" Woodward puts in quotation marks is an assassin's bullet during the Eucharist, after a homily that ordered the killing to stop. A leader treats ambition as self-made, originality as a private well, and imitation as something other people do. The formation of the team stays invisible, so the Powers that bend desire never get named. Chapter 12 names the romantic lie Girard warned against: that our desires are self-generated and that we become somebody by ourselves. Woodward says we do not discover our identities individually. We discover them through interdividuality, through relationships that create the inner self. Paul tells the Philippians they are who they are because they belong to Christ through the Spirit. Chapter 6 says we imitate the desires of those we look up to, our models, whether or not we notice. Chapter 7 adds that there is no neutral ground. The remedy he trusts is positive mimesis: Christ as the model who transforms desire, received as a gift and passed on, in the Spirit, inside a community. Seeing the models is the first act of the pathway.

Kenosis means Jesus set his power down

A church hears self-emptying as the loss of agency. Leadership becomes absence, vagueness, or a refusal to act, and people call the vacuum humility.

Woodward says it does not appear that Jesus emptied himself of his power. John tells us, in the verse he cites, that Jesus had all power, and he clearly did not wield it in a worldly or coercive way. The foot washing shows the use. While the disciples fought about greatness, he took the slave's role. Coakley, in the definition he adopts, treats kenosis as choosing never to have certain false and worldly forms of power, forms sometimes wrongly construed as divine. On that reading, the self-emptying is a lucid picture of divine power and of the Father's way. Paul still acts. He writes, prays, and tells the truth from prison. The power he refuses is the power that builds a private kingdom.

Become last so that you will be first

Humility gets used as a strategy. A leader takes the lower place in public, keeps score, and waits for the exaltation to pay them back in honor, platform, or God's favor.

Woodward says it might be a mistake to consider exaltation a prize or reward for humility. We do not become last in order to be first. The last is first in reality. To be humble is to be exalted. He cites Jesus' word about being lifted up and drawing all people, and Bauckham's claim that the contrast of humiliation and exaltation is the revelation of who God is. God rules as the one who serves. He is exalted as the one who is with the lowest. Romero is the chapter's warning against a tidy reward. The "reward" Woodward puts in quotation marks is an assassin's bullet during the Eucharist, after a homily that ordered the killing to stop.

My desires start with me

A leader treats ambition as self-made, originality as a private well, and imitation as something other people do. The formation of the team stays invisible, so the Powers that bend desire never get named.

Chapter 12 names the romantic lie Girard warned against: that our desires are self-generated and that we become somebody by ourselves. Woodward says we do not discover our identities individually. We discover them through interdividuality, through relationships that create the inner self. Paul tells the Philippians they are who they are because they belong to Christ through the Spirit. Chapter 6 says we imitate the desires of those we look up to, our models, whether or not we notice. Chapter 7 adds that there is no neutral ground. The remedy he trusts is positive mimesis: Christ as the model who transforms desire, received as a gift and passed on, in the Spirit, inside a community. Seeing the models is the first act of the pathway.

Key terms

Pathway vocabulary

kenotic leadership
His definition in chapter 12: kenotic leadership takes place when leaders possess their image in God instead of becoming possessed by their image, and when they can name, unmask, and engage ideologies that captivate them into relying on their own power for affirmation and attention. It sits under the kingdom prayer's closing line. The pathway that belongs with the term is refusing to exploit status, regularly emptying ourselves, and revolutionary humble obedience.
kenosis
He takes the word from the Christ hymn, where Christ emptied himself and took the form of a slave. Coakley, as he cites her, defines kenosis as choosing never to have certain false and worldly forms of power. He denies that Jesus emptied himself of power as such. John 13:3 says he had all power and did not wield it coercively. Kenotic spirituality is having the mind of Christ and taking the inverted pathway of honor.
mimetic desire
Girard's term, in Woodward's sentence for leaders. Models pass on desire whether or not anyone notices. We become what we love. Acquisitive mimesis borrows desire for an object. Metaphysical mimesis wants the model's very being. When the desired thing cannot or will not be shared, the model becomes a scandal to the disciple. Inside a church, an unshared title is his example.
positive mimesis
Chapter 7 says Girard says relatively little about the positive side. Woodward draws on Steinmair-Pösel and Swartley. Mimetic desire belongs to creation and is distorted into rivalry. Jesus, in the Spirit, shows a Father who gives rather than withholds. Positive mimesis receives grace and passes it on. Swartley ties it to the cross and to Paul's call to imitate him as he imitates Christ, including the self-emptying of Philippians 2. Good models make further good models.
scandal
From Girard's reading of Jesus' scandal language, which Woodward applies to pastors. A model becomes a scandal when the borrowed desire cannot or will not be shared. That is the negative scandal: rivalry, crisis, scapegoating. The positive scandal is imitating Christ. Chapter 12 says the scandal of leadership goes one way or the other. We scandalize those who look to us, or we scandalously imitate Christ.
the Powers
His brief definition in chapter 1. Domineering leadership, in his diagnosis, is not seen clearly until these are named. Chapter 7 links them to envious desire in James. Chapter 12 says the principalities and powers, founded on murder, seek to keep a leader in their grasp while that leader dies to an old identity. Naming, unmasking, and engaging them is the hope he states at the start, and the work he says Romero did for three years.
interdividuality
Chapter 12 uses the word against the romantic lie that we generate our own desires and become somebody alone. Our relationship with others creates our inner selves. In Christ, identity is son or daughter and also brother or sister. Because identity is received from Christ and from others, how we treat others shapes how we are treated. That is why Paul addresses the whole community: have the mind of Christ.
About the author

About JR Woodward

JR Woodward

JR Woodward is a church planter, missiologist, and movement leader who has spent more than three decades establishing missional-incarnational communities across the United States. As the National Director of the V3 Church Planting Movement, co-founder of Missio Alliance and the P